TOXIC FRIENDSHIP

Having many friends is desirable for some people because the more friends we have, the wider the relationships we will have later. However, not all friends have a positive impact on our lives; there are also negative impacts that can harm us. Yes, this is included in toxic friendship. What is toxic friendship? Toxic friendship is a friendship where the relationship tends to have a negative impact between friends, such as always feeling jealous of each other, happy to compete for bad things, and so on. The impact of toxic friendship is what can cause depression, stress, hair loss, weight loss, or weight gain. (Giliard, 2016).

Sometimes, someone does not realize whether they are in a toxic friendship. This happens because we often think that negative things in friendships are common, like joking around with friends. To recognize a toxic friendship, we need to understand its characteristics. The following are some signs: 1. Loves to criticize: Healthy friendships offer constructive criticism using polite language to avoid hurting feelings. Toxic friendships involve constant negative criticism about all decisions, big or small, leading to overthinking and insecurity. 2. Indifferent and uncaring: Toxic friends are usually egotistical, showing no compassion or empathy when we are in trouble or upset. They lack the ability to acknowledge our feelings or provide genuine support. 3. Manipulative: Toxic friends manipulate situations by distorting facts or playing the victim to gain attention.

usually friends like this can be caring and good in front but demonize you to others behind.if your friendship has entered into the 3 characteristics above, then never hesitate to leave, maybe it's a little difficult if done but It's okay to slowly try to move away from those who are toxic in friendship because the more you are in toxic friendships, it's not good for your mental health.

-Mea